Being close with the opposite sex, what does your patner think?

 When are you very close with the opposite sex?

You can be described as being very close with a person of different gender when you find yourself, spending time with them, more than you do with other people; both of the same sex and of the opposite sex.

 Does this mean you have bad intentions ?

No!  This doesn't always mean that. But then, communication breeds emotions. You might not intend to, however, spending time with the opposite sex can cause you to develop feelings for them.

What effect does it have on your partner?

You partner may not tell you, but they are mentally stressed. They tend to wonder what you are doing with that person at every point in time. It affects them negatively.

Conclusion

In as much as we do not mean harm by being close friends with people of the opposite sex, we should always keep the mental reasoning of our partners who we claim we love by keeping our boundaries. Everything should have limit.

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